North Node in Aries or First House
 
What to develop
 
Independence
Self-awareness
Trusting one’s impulses
Courage
Constructive self-interest
Moderation in giving
Self-nurturing
 
What to Change
 
Seeing oneself through others’ eyes
Debilitating selflessness
Being Mr or Ms Nice
Obsessive attachment to fairness and justice
Co-dependence: attachment to external harmony
“Tit for tat” mentality
 
Overall things to avoid or what Aries North Node need to be aware of:
 
*      A preoccupation with justice. Aries are very giving people by nature, yet their need for justice and absolute fairness is abyssal.
o       Start with “playing fair” with themselves by not giving more than they feel comfortable doing and know that nothing will be reciprocated.
 
*      An unending search for an ideal, committed partnership. The feeling of completeness they are seeking can only be achieved individually; and not a by-product of a relationship, no matter how wonderful the other person is.
 
o       By going their own direction, the appropriate people will be drawn into their life support them
 
The Real Wants and Desires of Aries North Node
 
To experience happiness, harmony, fairness, and support with one person whom they love.
To achieve this, they first must be that kind of partner to themselves. By learning about themselves, and understand they true needs and desires, they will attract this in their mate.
They need to find what make and brings them joy and do those things that are self-nurturing. This will make them have sense of balance.
 
 
Embracing Souls
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Jennifer Hillman